12.01.2011
thankful list | November
01. warmer weather after the unexpected snowstorm
02. our new space heater: why did we wait so long?
03. 2% spandex in my new jeans (the ones they replaced had no give. ouch.)
04. a great Skype session with Luis
05. the new Gmail iPhone app.
06. a hitch free shindig at work planned by yours truly
07. a husband bearing flowers after aforementioned shindig
08. a heart to heart with a great friend
09. friends as crazy about K-State sports as we are
10. a TV antenna that works (internet viewing was only lacking live football)
11. great friends to spend Thanksgiving with.
12. the ladies clobbering the lads in Celebrities.
13. only losing the rematch by 4 points when the names were stacked against us.
14. Thanksgiving food, particularly mashed potatoes and gravy.
15. and soul sweet taters.
16. and leftover soul sweet taters all weekend.
17. our cast iron dutch oven.
18. mom's football stew and buttermilk biscuit recipes.
19. Pushing Daisies season 2 on Blu-Ray.
20. my new sumi brush for SCRIPTschool.
21. video chats and phone calls when we can't be home.
22. the fireplace scent that has settled in our neighborhood.
23. goat cheese.
24. cheap tickets to CA for a wedding thanks to @JetBlueCheeps.
25. listening to Christmas music without dirty looks from Ian.
26. clean water.
27. Instagram.
28. sunshine.
29. fuzzy feelings after going through all our wedding cards for a project.
30. the [REUNION] Black Friday gift making open house.
11.24.2011
11.23.2011
NYC and The 7 Tour
Before we knew Dane and Micki's exact itinerary, we knew David Crowder Band was on The 7 Tour, their last ever. Ian promised me, after seeing DCB while on his internship in LA, someday he would take me to their show. For lack of future options, that someday became October 29, 2011.
The day after Dane and Micki left, we caught a 6:30 a.m. Bolt Bus to NYC. By the time we disembarked on 34th Street, the predicted precipitation had started to fall. We bundled up and walked in the direction of the High Line, since travel always involves landscape architecture sightseeing.
We trudged through the increasing downpour until we arrived at the stairs to the High Line. Already cold and wet, we remembered how much windier it is 30 feet above street level. And while I was wearing waterproof L.L. Bean boots and a poncho, Ian was drenched. One block and one photo in, and Ian gave up.
We walked back to Macy's in search of gloves and/or a poncho for Ian. It was crowded, and we were wearing giant dripping backpacks. They directed us to the 7th floor, via crowded elevators. We didn't find ponchos, but were starving and decided to patronize the penthouse McDonald's. We were desperate.
After scanning for several minutes, we spotted an open table. A man sitting nearby said to Ian, "Nice haircut!" Surprised, he thanked the man, who responded, "I have to shave it every three days" and then talked at people the next table over. Ian suggested I sit at the table by myself, next to the crazy man, and watch all our stuff while he ordered food. I decided we were not that desperate.
Several recommendations and elevator rides later, we were back on the first floor, exactly where we started, only to be informed they did not have ponchos or gloves cheaper than $60. Defeated by the weather and Macy's, we left in search of a warm meal. Contrary to advertising, shopping at Macy's over the holidays is less magical and more panic-attack-in-the-middle-of-the-aisle-and-cry-like-a-baby.
Thankfully, we found a warm pizza joint with an open table and after a chocolate croissant and an Instagram session, the day was looking much better. We hopped on the subway to our hotel, blow-dried/ironed our wet clothing, and watched the first half (the good half) of the K-State/OU game from under a toasty pile of blankets.
At halftime, we braved the weather and headed to Irving Plaza. And John Mark McMillan, Christ August, Gungor (with a beatboxing cellist), and David Crowder Band more than made up for the miserable weather.
The night culminated with a multi-artist performance of "How He Loves" and a DCB encore that included a guitar-melting rendition of Carol of the Bells.
The next morning was cold, but the sun was shining and we had 9:15 a.m. tickets to the 9/11 Memorial.
The park is open to the public, but until construction around the site is completed, access is limited and you must reserve a free pass online (these go quickly so don't wait). The memorial is completely worth the extra effort. The pools are stunning, and I appreciate how they arranged the victims' names based on their relationships to each other (with input from friends and family). The survivors tree was saved after the attacks and nursed back to health. The tree returned to the site only to be uprooted again by the hurricane this summer, but it continues to live up to its name.
After exploring the park and visitors center, we continued our landscape tour with Teardrop Park and a few trips down the giant slide.
We headed back to the hotel to check out, and enjoyed brunch at Felix, celebrating Halloween with a Prohibition theme. All of the wait staff was decked out in twenties garb and champagne corks periodically landed under our table as the bartender mixed mimosas. (The cork popping happens whether or not they're dolled up like a speakeasy, but helped sell the theme.)
We tried once again to visit the High Line, but were foiled, this time by icy conditions that kept the park closed (I'll blame that on our overly litigious society).
We moved on to Plan B: Brooklyn Bridge Park.
A waterfront park in Brooklyn replacing abandoned piers, parking lots, and storage buildings, it's a beautiful open space with a great view to Manhattan and Lady Liberty. We wandered around and Ian took site photos until we couldn't walk anymore.
Exhausted but satisfied, we took the Metro back to 34th Street and the Bolt Bus stop, procured Chipotle for dinner (to make Brett proud), and headed back to Boston.
Because of crazy amounts of traffic at 10 p.m. (really, Connecticut?) we arrived too late to catch the T. Fortunately, we hailed a "sit-down" comedian for a taxi driver, who knows every U.S. president in chronological order, as well as countless other Boston tidbits and jokes. And he was a good driver, too. They do exist!
We came away from the trip with a to-do list: Look into comfortable waterproof shoes for Ian. Buy some of the music from The 7 Tour. Revisit the High Line when an unseasonably early snow/rain storm is not ravaging the streets of NYC. Third time's a charm, right?
The day after Dane and Micki left, we caught a 6:30 a.m. Bolt Bus to NYC. By the time we disembarked on 34th Street, the predicted precipitation had started to fall. We bundled up and walked in the direction of the High Line, since travel always involves landscape architecture sightseeing.
We trudged through the increasing downpour until we arrived at the stairs to the High Line. Already cold and wet, we remembered how much windier it is 30 feet above street level. And while I was wearing waterproof L.L. Bean boots and a poncho, Ian was drenched. One block and one photo in, and Ian gave up.
We walked back to Macy's in search of gloves and/or a poncho for Ian. It was crowded, and we were wearing giant dripping backpacks. They directed us to the 7th floor, via crowded elevators. We didn't find ponchos, but were starving and decided to patronize the penthouse McDonald's. We were desperate.
After scanning for several minutes, we spotted an open table. A man sitting nearby said to Ian, "Nice haircut!" Surprised, he thanked the man, who responded, "I have to shave it every three days" and then talked at people the next table over. Ian suggested I sit at the table by myself, next to the crazy man, and watch all our stuff while he ordered food. I decided we were not that desperate.
Several recommendations and elevator rides later, we were back on the first floor, exactly where we started, only to be informed they did not have ponchos or gloves cheaper than $60. Defeated by the weather and Macy's, we left in search of a warm meal. Contrary to advertising, shopping at Macy's over the holidays is less magical and more panic-attack-in-the-middle-of-the-aisle-and-cry-like-a-baby.
Thankfully, we found a warm pizza joint with an open table and after a chocolate croissant and an Instagram session, the day was looking much better. We hopped on the subway to our hotel, blow-dried/ironed our wet clothing, and watched the first half (the good half) of the K-State/OU game from under a toasty pile of blankets.
At halftime, we braved the weather and headed to Irving Plaza. And John Mark McMillan, Christ August, Gungor (with a beatboxing cellist), and David Crowder Band more than made up for the miserable weather.
The night culminated with a multi-artist performance of "How He Loves" and a DCB encore that included a guitar-melting rendition of Carol of the Bells.
The next morning was cold, but the sun was shining and we had 9:15 a.m. tickets to the 9/11 Memorial.
The park is open to the public, but until construction around the site is completed, access is limited and you must reserve a free pass online (these go quickly so don't wait). The memorial is completely worth the extra effort. The pools are stunning, and I appreciate how they arranged the victims' names based on their relationships to each other (with input from friends and family). The survivors tree was saved after the attacks and nursed back to health. The tree returned to the site only to be uprooted again by the hurricane this summer, but it continues to live up to its name.
After exploring the park and visitors center, we continued our landscape tour with Teardrop Park and a few trips down the giant slide.
We headed back to the hotel to check out, and enjoyed brunch at Felix, celebrating Halloween with a Prohibition theme. All of the wait staff was decked out in twenties garb and champagne corks periodically landed under our table as the bartender mixed mimosas. (The cork popping happens whether or not they're dolled up like a speakeasy, but helped sell the theme.)
We tried once again to visit the High Line, but were foiled, this time by icy conditions that kept the park closed (I'll blame that on our overly litigious society).
We moved on to Plan B: Brooklyn Bridge Park.
A waterfront park in Brooklyn replacing abandoned piers, parking lots, and storage buildings, it's a beautiful open space with a great view to Manhattan and Lady Liberty. We wandered around and Ian took site photos until we couldn't walk anymore.
Exhausted but satisfied, we took the Metro back to 34th Street and the Bolt Bus stop, procured Chipotle for dinner (to make Brett proud), and headed back to Boston.
Because of crazy amounts of traffic at 10 p.m. (really, Connecticut?) we arrived too late to catch the T. Fortunately, we hailed a "sit-down" comedian for a taxi driver, who knows every U.S. president in chronological order, as well as countless other Boston tidbits and jokes. And he was a good driver, too. They do exist!
We came away from the trip with a to-do list: Look into comfortable waterproof shoes for Ian. Buy some of the music from The 7 Tour. Revisit the High Line when an unseasonably early snow/rain storm is not ravaging the streets of NYC. Third time's a charm, right?
11.22.2011
Advent Conspiracy: xmas cards
Last Christmas, we decided to make Christmas more [relational, intentional, meaningful, joyful] with less [stress, spending, obligation, stuff]. And we invited you to join us by writing about some of our favorite gift ideas that fit with this thing we call Advent Conspiracy.
When I saw our friends Micah and Marianna at Old Try are conspiring this year with their design talents, I knew I had to share.
Each year through Advent Conspiracy, [REUNION] supports (along with a few other worthy causes like fighting sex trafficking in Boston) clean water initiatives in developing countries. And this year, Old Try is partnering with [REUNION] by offering beautiful Christmas cards to support this cause. For each and every card purchased, $3 goes towards digging fresh water wells.
For more Advent Conspiracy ideas, click here.
When I saw our friends Micah and Marianna at Old Try are conspiring this year with their design talents, I knew I had to share.
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| photo by Old Try |
Each year through Advent Conspiracy, [REUNION] supports (along with a few other worthy causes like fighting sex trafficking in Boston) clean water initiatives in developing countries. And this year, Old Try is partnering with [REUNION] by offering beautiful Christmas cards to support this cause. For each and every card purchased, $3 goes towards digging fresh water wells.
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| photo by Old Try |
"The X on the front in place of Christ is there for a reason. This card, this season, will raise money to help eradicate thirst, make people less susceptible to droughts and help prevent disease from the lack of clean water. Christ can do a lot, and we can, too." — Old TryBuy xmas cards, spread Christmas cheer, and give the gift of clean water. It doesn't get any better than that.
For more Advent Conspiracy ideas, click here.
11.17.2011
the annual eye exam visit: D.C. in a day
I left work early on Monday to finish packing and meet up with Dane, Micki (with her squeaky clean, post-appointment contact lens), and Ian for our 7:50 p.m. flight to DC. Since Ren spent part of his summer studying at the United States Holocaust Memorial Museum and Ian has been working on a certain project at Arlington National Cemetery, we thought it would be a good family adventure for Micki's birthday.
Thanks to the itinerary Ian mapped out for us, we managed to squeeze in Arlington, the USDA cafeteria, Holocaust Museum, and Pentagon Memorial before our 7 p.m. return flight Tuesday evening.
Most of our time at Arlington we spent examining the Kennedy memorial. Ian brought plans and renderings so we could better envision the senator's future grave site. We also happened upon a funeral taking place nearby. The soldiers who participate in the services demonstrate such respect for those who have served our country, and such consideration for the family. I couldn't help but think back to the soldiers who folded Grandpa's flag before handing it to Grandma at his graveside.
The USDA cafeteria came recommended by Ren, who frequented it on lunch breaks while he was completing his intensive study program across the street at the Holocaust Museum. Keeping in mind it is a cafeteria and not a five-star restaurant, it was quite tasty. I also realized I've fully adjusted to the cordial but cooler tendencies of New England when I was taken aback by the guy behind the counter, who cheerfully offered to make my panini to order, sans mushrooms. His smile had joy behind it, not formality, and it was refreshing.
There are not words to describe the Holocaust Museum (or photography, which isn't permitted in the exhibits). The musty wooden smell of the interior of a cattle car that brought hundreds of thousands of unsuspecting Jews to their deaths. The pile of empty suitcases that had been filled with personal belongings and family treasures, the owners fully expecting to use the contents. The tower of family portraits. The overwhelming smell of leather in a room piled with discarded shoes. The stories of the debate on whether or not to participate in the 1936 Olympics in Germany (the winners of the debate argued sports weren't political, despite the fact that successful games would support Hitler's cause).
Our final stop was the Pentagon Memorial. It is eerie to see the repaired section of the building, a subtle change in color distinguishing the old from the new. The memorial is beautiful. One bench for each victim, organized by birth year. Still pools of water under each bench. Muted colors, exquisite detailing. If you're interested in learning more about the design, you can view the Washington Post interactive here.
And just like that, 24 hours after we started, we were on a plane home.
I've been to D.C. two other times, and both visits were less than a day. Ian says if we keep it up, we'll hit all the popular destinations by age 60. Maybe by then the Metro will have simplified fares and written instructions that can fit on the machine in font bigger than size 10. Nah, it's Washington.
Thanks to the itinerary Ian mapped out for us, we managed to squeeze in Arlington, the USDA cafeteria, Holocaust Museum, and Pentagon Memorial before our 7 p.m. return flight Tuesday evening.
Most of our time at Arlington we spent examining the Kennedy memorial. Ian brought plans and renderings so we could better envision the senator's future grave site. We also happened upon a funeral taking place nearby. The soldiers who participate in the services demonstrate such respect for those who have served our country, and such consideration for the family. I couldn't help but think back to the soldiers who folded Grandpa's flag before handing it to Grandma at his graveside.
The USDA cafeteria came recommended by Ren, who frequented it on lunch breaks while he was completing his intensive study program across the street at the Holocaust Museum. Keeping in mind it is a cafeteria and not a five-star restaurant, it was quite tasty. I also realized I've fully adjusted to the cordial but cooler tendencies of New England when I was taken aback by the guy behind the counter, who cheerfully offered to make my panini to order, sans mushrooms. His smile had joy behind it, not formality, and it was refreshing.
There are not words to describe the Holocaust Museum (or photography, which isn't permitted in the exhibits). The musty wooden smell of the interior of a cattle car that brought hundreds of thousands of unsuspecting Jews to their deaths. The pile of empty suitcases that had been filled with personal belongings and family treasures, the owners fully expecting to use the contents. The tower of family portraits. The overwhelming smell of leather in a room piled with discarded shoes. The stories of the debate on whether or not to participate in the 1936 Olympics in Germany (the winners of the debate argued sports weren't political, despite the fact that successful games would support Hitler's cause).
I recommend exploring their website. Not only do they have information, teaching material, and numerous online exhibits, they also address genocide as a current issue and list at-risk countries including Sudan, near and dear to our family.
Our final stop was the Pentagon Memorial. It is eerie to see the repaired section of the building, a subtle change in color distinguishing the old from the new. The memorial is beautiful. One bench for each victim, organized by birth year. Still pools of water under each bench. Muted colors, exquisite detailing. If you're interested in learning more about the design, you can view the Washington Post interactive here.
And just like that, 24 hours after we started, we were on a plane home.
I've been to D.C. two other times, and both visits were less than a day. Ian says if we keep it up, we'll hit all the popular destinations by age 60. Maybe by then the Metro will have simplified fares and written instructions that can fit on the machine in font bigger than size 10. Nah, it's Washington.
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